The Humane Way To Break Up With Her

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The problem arises when a woman doesn't get the message. She's willing to try

to make it work, even if you're both miserable. She seems so invested, so you

don't want to ruin it for her. You're afraid of hurting her. Here's what I've

learned over a lifetime: If you're not happy anymore, man up. The worst thing you can do

to somebody else is to stay involved in a relationship and waste her time.In

life, we'll never get time back, so you have to honor your own time, and hers, too. It's

not fair to somebody to stay in a relationship because you're afraid to break up and hurt

her. In reality, by staying in that relationship, you're going to hurt her so much more

because she's under the illusion that it's mutually satisfying.So as a man, no

matter where you're at, or how long you've been with her, if you're no longer in love with

a woman and you're reading this right now, you need to go home and break

up with her immediately.You need to be the man. You need to tell her

exactly why you're breaking up. You need to tell her that she's a wonderful, amazing woman

but that you can't give her what she needs. And by doing that, you're stepping up and

being a man.I've learned the hard way. Breaking up is so hard to do. I mean,

there are a million cheesy songs about it. It really is hard because you're going to hurt

somebody, and you're also stepping into the unknown again.Part of the reason

guys stay in bad relationships is because they don't want to be single again. They don't

want to be have to face the unknown. They don't know whether they'll meet somebody

else.Here's the deal: Not only are you going to meet somebody else, but you're

going to meet somebody else so much better for you. That's the energy and the mindset that

you need to have. So if you're in a bad relationship right now, I strongly suggest you man

up instead of letting more time slip away. There are so many more adventures to be had.

Don't miss out because you were afraid.

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